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Looking for a handy guide to Ang Bao etiquette this Chinese New Year?

The time-honoured tradition of giving and receiving ang baos is synonymous with the Lunar New Year. In Chinese societies, it is customary for married individuals to give red packets filled with money to their parents, single adults and children as a symbol of good luck. 

Sometimes, it can be daunting to figure out how much to pack inside each red envelope, and how to budget for your total ang bao expenditure. 

Psst…if you’re currently in your first year of marriage, you’re exempt from giving out ang baos, as there’s traditionally a one-year grace period of sorts. We can hear some of you are breathing a sigh of relief right now! Otherwise, here are five useful tips to observe. 

1. Give within your means  

There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to preparing ang baos. According to Singsaver,  you should give as much as you are comfortable with, set aside a budget you are willing to spend on ang baos this year, make a list of ang bao recipients, categorise them based on relations and make adjustments if necessary.  

Discuss with your spouse about the total sum of money to allocate to ang bao giving, and how much to pack for each recipient. 

Other things to consider include whether you should both combine funds, or if each person should finance the ang baos for his or her own side of the family. 

“We pool our money and try to make the amounts in the ang baos consistent for both sides of the family,” says 30-year-old Iz Chua, who will be giving ang baos for the second time this Chinese New Year. 

But this isn’t the case for 26-year-old Amanda Lee, “My husband and I will each be giving separate ang baos to our parents,” she shares. Amanda will be giving ang baos for the first time this year. 

However, don’t be too hung up about the value inside each ang bao. At the end of the day, remember that fundamentally, ang baos are a symbol of goodwill, not a financial transaction. 


2. Consider your relationship with the individual…

When categorising your ang bao recipients, consider your relationship with the individual. The closer your ties to the recipient, the larger the ang bao should be. Typically, parents and other immediate family members warrant heftier ang baos; in contrast, acquaintances and the children of friends usually receive smaller sums.


3. …As well as your family culture  

For instance, some families place a lot of emphasis on ang baos; in contrast, others prefer gifting token sums and demonstrating their goodwill through food instead. 

Other traditions also persist. “Between me and my husband, I’ll actually be footing the bulk of the ang bao expenses. I grew up with the women in the family managing the money for Chinese New Year, and it hasn’t changed for me,” Amanda shares. 


4. Take note of custom 

Chinese custom dictates that the sum in each ang bao should not contain the number four, as this is supposedly inauspicious. In spite of this, even numbers are considered better than odd ones, with eight being particularly favoured. 

Do also refrain from packing dirty and crumpled notes in your ang baos, and never use coins. You can exchange your old notes for fresh, crisp ones at the bank. 

Furthermore, when giving out your ang baos, approach the most senior person present at the gathering first; this is a sign of respect. Do also remember to gift your ang bao with two hands.


5. Always be prepared

“Be sure to make a comprehensive list of all of your relatives to avoid missing anyone out,” advises Iz. The good thing about this year is, there is a limit to how many visitors you can have and how many houses you can visit in a day. So you may not have to prepare spare ang baos, but if it is a habit of yours to carry spare ang baos, remember to bundle them in the right domination to avoid giving out a wrong ang bao.

In view of the visitation restrictions this Chinese New Year, you may want to consider sending an e-ang bao.


I Love Children wishes all a Prosperous Chinese New Year!



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